Saturday, November 1, 2008

THAT'S NOT THE WAY IT WAS IN MY DAY!


I heard this growing up and continue to hear it today.

I am very blessed to have my parents still living. My father was born in 1923 and my mother in 1930. When I look at those numbers, my brain freezes. What was it like to live back then? The only thing this generation can wrap it's mind around is the here and the now.

Listening to my parents speak of a simpler life makes me long for more innocent days of old. When my mother craved peaches, she didn't go to the grocery store; she went down to the cellar and grabbed a quart-size Mason jar which her mother canned. Her mothers washing machine was a wringer washer and all the laundry was dried outside on clothes lines. Telephone numbers were shared by neighbors who could interrupt your call at any time.

My dad didn't wear a back pack to school but carried his books in a stack, tied together with string or an old shoelace. When my dad's generation needed money, they got on a bike and delivered the daily paper. Because there was no television or video games, kids actually gathered on safe streets to play tag, capture the stick, marbles or jacks. If Dad could get enough friends together, they would play a neighborhood game of ball that lasted until dusk. Then the family would gather around the radio for evening entertainment.

Don't think that a simpler life was an easier one. The Great Depression took it's toll and many fathers lost their jobs, filing into breadlines to keep their families from starving. If you managed to have a job, you worked hard to keep it. Money was scarce and the economy suffered a very devastating blow. Just as our nation was recovering from the crash, WWII became the focus.

My folks survived the Depression as well as the war and still live to tell about days such as these. They are now enjoying so many modern conveniences that help make their lives easier. On occasion, my dad will even say, "If my mother could see this, she would roll over in her grave!"

But from then to now, everything is different; nothing is the same. We get more done in a minute than they could have gotten done in several hours or even days. One thing that frustrates my parents is the speed at which things change. Just when my mom learned how to navigate her present operating system, Windows came out with a new one. My dad loves his iPod but hasn't figured out how to update his play list. Replacing an old cell phone with a newer version is completely mind-boggling. They feel as though they can't keep up. Technology is in absolute hyperspace! While my brain is accustomed to processing at the speed of light; they are dizzy from breathing my fumes.

Have you ever stopped to consider what our existence will look like in 25 years? Will we be able to keep up with the information age? Life as we know it is going to be completely different. When someone says, "That's not the way it was in my day," they'll actually be referring to yesterday!

Speculate, for a minute, how things might change from this generation to the next.

Let me hear your thoughts.

28 comments:

Nathan James said...

hmm, good point you made.

but one thing that i often wonder about is what the music would be like in 20+ years. i've noticed that the lyrics of modern bands/artists are getting more provocative and offensive. back in the 50s, 60s, and probably 70s, the lyrics were mildly bad, but usually had a decent foundation. today, rap artists and obscure metal bands have some of the most gory, perverted and satanic lyrics i've ever read. that sorta thing courses my mind often. and i wonder how it would sound as well. i've heard, and sometimes listen to, some pretty heavy and dark sounding music. not necessarily offensive lyrics, but pretty heavy sounds. if music today can get that heavy and brutal, what would it be like in 20+ years? i don't know. just something that comes to mind at times.

Cyberpsalmist said...

Nathan,

You made a good point as well. As a musician myself, I am far from being closed minded to all sorts of musical genre. Like you, I don't sit and listen to everything, but I feel it's important to have an understanding of whats out there.

First of all, I can't imagine much more than an earful of that stuff letting loose in my head. Most of what you are talking about is definitely satanic. I'd like to come from the other side on this one and say that I believe this entire musical community is, in fact, very spiritual . . . just not of the same Spirit as you and I. Most of the lyrics reveal their search for truth and others believe they have found it. The lyrics also express the pain of this generation. In 25 years, It might be seriously grave.

Anonymous said...

I think I'll reminisce about the future for a moment.
25 years from now I will be watching my children watching movies and playing video games just like I do today. But those activities would be a bit different. The movies would be played on TVs in eye glasses and the video games would be played in virtual reality. And my kids will ask me, "Dad, what were video games like when you were a kid?"
And I'll say," You know how the characters in your games look just like real people? Well, back in the day, you could actualy see the pixals in their faces." And they will drop their jaws in disbelief.
Then I would go on to say how we used to play the games on these clunky things called controllers and how the CDs were a whopping 6" across. Next I would tell them about the long dead business known as screen acting. But my children will just end up saying to each other, "Silly Daddy -- always making up stuff."

Anonymous said...

In a generation, we will no longer see people hanging on to their cell phones as if they are their lifelines, nor will we see cells hooked to the tops of people's ears; communication devices will most likely be implanted in people's ears. However, in a generation, I might not get the opportunity to have one of those nifty little doo-dads because things and technology will have become frightfully more important than a living being. In this present generation we have already seen blatant disregard for human life as expressed in the millions of abortions every year. "Back in the day," abortions may have happened, but never in abundance and always with shame. With this increasing disregard for the value of humanity, we are moving from infanticide to genocide in the form of geriatricide. Don't bother to look up that word in the dictionary. It's not there, but it will be in 20 years if this present generation ignores the symptoms. Old (geriatric) people like me will be put out of our (your) misery if we're mentally deficient, physically disabled, nonproductive drains on society. We will no longer be viable; therefore, we will be dispensable. Nobody will waste the money and technology of a communication implant on us. Somebody throw me a lifeline!

Cyberpsalmist said...

Good insight, Mrs. Brooks,

If there is no sanctity of life, why bother with us. In fact, the young may have to fear being dispensed of if they become a drain, as you say, on society. I imagine the prison system will be obsolete, as well as any other institution that takes care of humans in any way. Scary!

Anonymous said...

I too yearn for simpler times. Maybe that is why we sometimes "hold-off" on the newest technology available. By using an antenna rather than having "cable" or the other options out there, we spend less time watching tv, and more time doing "healthy" activities. By ignoring the "cell" phone strapped to our bodies, we spend time doing things, uninterrupted. By driving older cars, without the video screens, we actually "talk" to each other during our road trips.
We did break down and get higher speed internet recently. We were getting so frustrated with the wait time of "dial-up". Yes, we live in "hyperspace" times, but we still can simplify where we can.

Cyberpsalmist said...

Mary,

Great ideas! I love it when I forget my cell phone, although everyone else gets frustrated. Have you ever called someone who doesn't have an answering machine? It can be very annoying. But you are right . . . we can still find ways to keep things simple.

Cyberpsalmist said...

Daniel,

It was fun to retrospect with you. It's hard to imagine life without the drama of Hollywood, but I suppose that could be possible. There are a some things we may have to fight for to keep around.

I have to admit, my kids laughed at me when I showed them the first recording I ever made. It was on a 33 1/2 vinyl record. I can't even play it for them!

lemonheads904 said...

I think that in twenty years we will get even closer to meeting our maker.
The fall of man is on the rise.
people everywhere are saying that the lord is coming soon and that we might not have a freedom of speech anymore.
I have one things to say.
I will go sit in a jail sell for saying that being gay is wrong.
I think as a nation we need more people to stand up for whats right.
we have all these people in church saying that this stuff is wrong but nobody wants to confront the issue.
Why do we stand by and let people do the things that we no is wrong. why do we hide in the back of the pews in our churches.

I'm tired of it. everyone is saying all of this but when they are really confronted with the issue they don't want to face it.

in 20 yrs it's going to be far worse. the sad part is we think it's bad now.

Someone stated something to me the other day that really made me think. If you aren't trying your best to stand up and do something about it you have no right to complain.

I have stated my opinion.

Anonymous said...

I wonder the same thing that nathan has about music. I also wonder how the cars will look in 25or 30 years from now. I hate the thought of getting older and the things around me changing. I often think about how the style of clothes will change also.

Cyberpsalmist said...

Lemonheads904,

Your convictions are to be commended.

Before I went into labor, I anticipated the work involved and even tried to imagine the pain. Then I asked God for the strength to endure, purposing in my heart that I WOULD NOT GIVE UP OR GIVE IN. In other words, I planned ahead for my darkest hours.

I believe we need to plan ahead, just as you said, and figure out where we stand so that when the battle of compromise rages, we won't give up or give in!

Cyberpsalmist said...

Amy,

Aah yes, getting older. Things do change as we age. I hate birthdays too. Seems a number like that shouldn't define you, (especially if you've been to Neverland.)

I grew up in a small town in the Midwest, where not much changed for years. I went home at the end of August only to find more change than I cared to confront. A part of you dies inside when a chapter in your life is completely written. That's a good time to turn the page and get busy on the next one.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm....

I'm thinking about modes of transportation...

I think in the future there will no longer be such things as wheels. Instead, we will either drive about in bubbles that float around and are controlled by our brains, or we will not need any kind of automoobiles because we will be as the guy in the movie "JUMPER" and be able to transport ourselves wherever we would like to go.

(I can Dream Right?)

Anonymous said...

I think that different technologies that we see emerging today will be everyday life 20+ years from now. Such as the iPhone, every cell phone will have the technologies of the iPhone and more. Our internet will never be the same also. Some cities such as Aneheim, California have free Wi-Fi in every part of the town. This will be the case for all cities and non-rural areas. The internet will also be infinitely fast. Windows is also has a prototype computer that is a flat table touchscreen. I heard about this but never saw it because they did not want to show pictures of the computer. There are also many other technologies that I have not explained that will come out.

Cyberpsalmist said...

Demetri,

This sounds promising. You have reminded us this will not be all doom and gloom. There will be benefits to modern technology as long as I have user friendly operating instructions.

Cyberpsalmist said...

Shay,

Amy mentioned cars but you took it a step further and gave us a visual. Kind of reminds me of the way "The Jetsons" got around in my favorite '60s cartoon. It was all so futuristic and yet those cool little space cars could very well be our prototype.

Anonymous said...

I believe there will be flying cars flying people and flying dogs better soda better candy better everything and lots of fat people cause all of these inventions make me so lazy ;)

Cyberpsalmist said...

Hunter,

Your analysis reminds me of the movie, Wallie, in which everyone gets around via lounge chairs while the planet is supposedly being restored. They were offered many pleasures in exchange for their compliance. The audience noticed their obese transformation before they themselves did.

The more that modern technology physically takes over, the more potential there is for this to happen. Then you factor in foods that have no nutritional value, we'll be known as the Planet of Pudgy People!

Anonymous said...

There are a lot of things that may change in our future. Such as what we eat, how we get around, and what type of activities we do. During the presidential election Obama's campaighn theme was "change", while some change is good there are some things that do not need to be changed. Such as what are counrty was founded on which is God. America has strayed far from that. Maybe the changes that need to made are not towards material things, but towards morality and righteousness.
~Christy

Cyberpsalmist said...

Christy,

While I was at my Orthodontist appointment today, I overheard two doctors discussing politics. One of the the doctors was an American citizen and another was not. The foreign doctor (here to get her orthodontics education) asked many questions about our government. The doctor, who was a citizen, gave her some very insightful answers. Then he asked her what she thought of the process as well as the outcome of the election. I was surprised by her honest answer. She expressed shock at the outcome and stated this country was not ready for the changes our newly elected president was proposing. She further added, "American are too accustomed to their freedoms and what he stands for will virtually take that away."

I sat there with my mouth open. Just then, my Orthodontist walked in. It was a good position for her to find me in :)

Anonymous said...

I think in the future things will be chaos. Taxes gone up so much no one can afford anything. Also every few mins we would start another stupid war for no reason. The government will have so much power the world will fall apart. People all around the world will perish and/or live a miserable life. I think the earth with slowly fade away into a black hole.

(I'm so pessimistic today I know)

Cyberpsalmist said...

Alyssa,

I think we will all need to be positive about the future. We all know things will be changing but need to remember He has us in the palm of His mighty hand. I think the main thing is keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He will lead us through what ever we may need to face. Keep your chin up!

Anonymous said...

As for the technology and clothing styles we enjoy, I'm sure they will change, and our kids might be laughing at the stuff we wore or used! Seriously, they will be looking at our Macs, PCs, and laptops and saying, "They were that thick?!" Definitely, they will stare at Ipods and MP3 players in disbelief...and CDS? Those will be non-existent. However, I think that possibly our kids will like some of the music and even clothing styles of our time or of times before us. For example, I still like listening to the Beatles and the Monkees, who are from the '60s, and from what I have heard, the bell bottoms are making a come back. Wouldn't our kids do the same?

More importantly, I think Christians will come across more opposition. The Bible does talk about how the days will become worse as we come closer to the "last days". Already, Christians are looked down at, and the church and Jesus are made fun of daily. However, I think it will even climax to the point of actual persecution. Are we willing to stand firm, even if it means death? Trust me, I ask myself this question as I see our world on the downgrade. Jesus paid it all for us, but are we willing to sacrifice all for Him? The answer: "We should be." But do we really act that way?

Anonymous said...

well many things have changed in the past. like electronics things have changed majorly and things still will change

Cyberpsalmist said...

Dallas,

Even the computer you are typing on right now will be a thing of the past!

Cyberpsalmist said...

Tina,

I am convinced, after all the fashion trends I have lived through, that we should never throw away any cool jewelry or clothing as it will find it's way back to the fashion forefront in a few years.

As for persecution? We haven't seen anything yet. I also believe we will learn the meaning of Hebrews 10:25, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. There is strength in numbers!

Surreptitious Faerie said...

In the future things are just going to keep getting smaller and smaller. I was looking on the mac website recently, and saw how thin one of them was and I was rather suprised that someone would make something that thin for a computer. o_0 I'd be afraid of it snapping. And if we can do that with our technology now, just imagine what its going to be like 20some years from now. Maybe the desktop computers we have now will be small enough to fit in our hands. I'm personally vying for holographic computers myself. 8] That would awesome to be able to literally see a 3D image of whatever we're doing on the computer, not to mention a big space saver. No matter what the future holds in store for the electronic realm, its bound to be pretty neat.

-Alaina.

Cyberpsalmist said...

I agree, Alaina, technological advances will definitely improve for our benefit. I can't imagine the Mac getting any smaller. The only way it could get any more compact would be if someone figured out a way to fold it. Ooo, there goes another great idea right out of my head!