Ugly Is Just a Flavor

My son was doing a little summer grammar lesson and asked me if the word "ugly" was an adjective or a proper noun, as in the book title, "The Ugly Duckling". I had to think for a minute. In most cases, "ugly" is an adjective, according to the dictionary. But I guess that really depends on how it is being used, or should I say,
what flavor you want.

Kids can be cruel. Adults too, but contrary to the sticks and stones rhyme, names do hurt. Being called "ugly" cuts deep to the soul. Calling someone that adjective leaves a bitter taste in the mouth of the slanderer, which is almost impossible to wash out. An apology is the only true remedy.

In the South, having a bad attitude is called being "ugly". It's been used to describe my disposition a time or two. Whether I'm annoyingly disagreeable or in an extremely sour mood, "ugly" usually leads to solitude. No one seems to want my company. The function here would be an adverb.

I was introduced to a sweet treat at the local donut shop which appeared deformed but tasted delicious. My guess, these huge fritters are made from a variety of donut scraps as well as apples and leftover raisins. First fried, then glazed with frosting, they are large enough for sharing. The "Ugly" has turned out to be one of my favorites, along with a cup of Joe. Herein, a proper noun, although not in the dictionary.

We live in a world where language keeps evolving. A negative word can have a positive meaning. For example, when your girlfriend sees your new pink highlights and comments you look "bad", she really means it looks fabulous. The flavor of words continue to change.

In the classic story by Hans Christian Anderson, the duckling faces an identity crisis. His differences seem overwhelming and he exists in the shadow of his own label. Eventually, he moves past the boundaries of the adjective and comes to the same realization: bitter, sour or sweet - ugly is just a flavor.