



Rear view reflections - "Objects Are Closer Than They Appear." These are my thoughts... I'll give you a penny for yours.
The other thing I found strange was the cashier at my local supermarket asked to see my ID when I purchased a cooking wine for a recipe I recently made. I thought she was just paying me a nice compliment until she politely smiled and said, "Well, you just never know."
Not long after that, while I was with my oldest son, someone asked if he was my brother. We both gave a rather sour expression in response, contemplating what that would've been like. He would have killed me before I had the chance to think about growing up.
My son married a very sweet girl. I love to hang out with her. Even more interesting is that she likes hanging out with me. I feel more like her friend than her in-law. Both of them have grown up enough to start a family. I am now "Mia" to Maggie and Benjamin is on the way!
It truly tickles me when my oldest daughter and her friends want to chill with me. They call, email, and text me as if I'm one of their own. When I travel to see her, we eat out, see movies and hang out together. When I think about the late night pranks we've pulled... (Oh, did I say that? Forget you read that part.)
Although my teenage son and his younger sister get distracted by common pastimes such as air-soft, rip-sticking, scouts, FB, and WII, (no, that does not stand for World War II), I think they will be needing an explanation soon. Most nights I am up long after they go to bed (they NEVER go to bed) and arise well after the time their soft feet hit the floor. My whereabouts are stable and my time is consumed with very important tasks such as lesson plans for the following day of homeschooling, the makings of tomorrows menu along with a grocery list, a possible late-night trip to our local Freak-Mart where there is no one to interrupt me except ten semi-trucks worth of stock so I can't get from one aisle to another. These two children are beginning to wonder if that's when I travel Neverland.
The wee hours of the night are for me to calm down and get still. The reason some people call it "quiet time" is because that is what it's suppose to be. Sure, I stay up late to write, clean out a drawer, fold laundry, sew on a costume, finish a scrapbook page, compose a song, or read a chapter in one of Adrianna Trigiani's latest books. But more than any of those things, I love to listen to Him. I do so much of the talking that I am sure He is waiting to get a word in edgewise. He tells me things no one else will ever say. He knows me better than anyone and leads me beside waters that have no rough current. It is during that time that I see my cup as spilling over; hopefully on to those I will be in contact with tomorrow. And you just never know what tomorrow is going to bring. Tomorrowland and Neverland are next-door neighbors.
My husband of 35 years has not given up on his youth but has begun to literally see his limitations. His most recent setback, another bought with cancer, has us living life more intentionally. We have learned to pray harder , but we've also learned to play harder because you just don't know what tomorrow will bring.
A few years ago Gary had eye surgery due to a detached retina. Just after he began to regain some of the vision back in his right eye, he told me what he was seeing reminded him of those crazy mirrors you see at the circus. You know, the ones that make you appear short and fat? Well, his right eye was causing him to see everything as tall and thin, even me! Maybe I can quit all this dieting after all.
I think I have learned a valuable lesson from my husband's new viewpoint... this must be the way God sees me as well. It's just like the message in my rear view mirror that says, "Objects are closer than they appear." I'm really not as far away as I think; I'm not as heavy as I look; I'm not as dumb as I sound; I'm not as silly as I act and I'm definitely not as old as my birth certificate says I am!
I've been to Neverland.
Case closed.
Penning for your thoughts,
Cyberpsalmist
10 comments:
"Life Is Beautiful"
Out of the wide world of cinema I must say that "La vita รจ bella", to give it's original title, is the movie that has effected me more then any other. This movie shows the love of a family in World War II. The movie truly shows the love of a father and mother for there son and how they give up everything there son. The two things that made me choose this over say one of five different Tom Hanks movies, is that it shows that even at the most serious times comedy can be warranted(ex. the riddles). and secondly because it shows innocence in the son that allows you to understand what Christ means by saying to be like children.
Thomas Brooke
ps it shows ignorance is bliss.
WOW, Thomas, I LOVE that movie! In fact, I wish it was on our list of movies to view for class but there's only so many weeks in a year for all this film fun. I am a firm believer in laughing at my mistakes as well as applying a more "Pollyanna" approach to life's setbacks. It's a real art to sprinkle in laughter and for some, it comes easier than it does to others.
Cyberpsalmist
The movie that has had the most impact on my life would probably be "Rushmore", because there are many paralells between my life and the main character Max Fischer. For example: he went to a small but very prestigious Episcopalian school, as did I. He often daydreamed during chapel, one of my favorite pastimes. He was on the debate team, was not a great student, the burden of unrequited 'love', had a brief stint with public school, and ambitions bigger and more extroardinary than was practical. I, for all intents and purposes, am Max Fischer. And it is because of this that i feel a certain connection with Max, and his trials and hardships, which allowed me to really take to the heart of the movie, which is that it's alright to be brash and bold and audacious, and to never let go of the dreams and ambitions that drive you, no matter how big.
"Amastaad"
This movie truely opened my eyes to see how slavery, was a such a terrible thing. I never knew how extreme the slave ships treated them. It also showed, that God would help in a situation when asked and to show His Glory still to the unbielevers. After the African Americans saw this what God can do, they changed their ways and trusted him. That's the way we fellow Christians should live because even though we go through troubled times we should never lose faith.
Emily Stutsman
Walter, I have to admit, I haven't see this movie. I will certainly rent/Netflix it so I can learn more about you. It's exhilarating to see yourself or your life represented in a movie. In my case, it was just a segment as well as the fact that the main character and I held so many of the same ideals. The advantage you have over the character in your movie is that you have the Lord's hand of blessing over you and parents who pray daily for you to follow His will. It will be interesting to see how far into the future your life mimics that of Max Fischer's. I think I would like to see the "Walter Morris" movie!
Emily, Good pick! Such a well done film too. I saw a film that moved me in the same way called "Taken" which exposes human trafficking. The movie not only stirred a righteous anger in me, I grieved at the injustice. When the directors/writers engage the audience to the point where we are able to say, "that could be me" they have accomplished a lot; I leave movies like that a changed person!
"Grand Torino"
When Walt Kawalski (Clint Eastwood) finds the boy next door in his garage trying to steel his prized Grand Torino, he offers forgiveness but it comes with a price. Next, Walt sees the boy next door being beat up by some punks and shows he has no fear over thugs. He goes out his way and lays his life down to save a girl and her brother, a friendship slowly comes into being between the boy's family and Kawalski.
This movie showed me that even a man with illnesses and a regretful past can throw his life down for a purpose greater than his own.
Garrett, better late than never! I extend grace to you for writing this so late, but only for this week :)
This is one of my favorite movies and had a huge impact on me as well. I was impressed with the many talents of Clint Eastwood... from acting to directing, music, etc. He is so good. I was also taken back by the films type and shadowing. It wasn't until the end that I made the connection. I wonder if Mr. Eastwood was intentional about this?
Kawalski was a tough character and it was good to see the softer side of this man. I believe we all know men like him, who have a rough exterior but are nothing but teddy bears on the inside. The world needs to see the emotions and tenderness of men more often. It is a gift to reveal them as well as a gift to receive them.
WARNING! Grand Torino is rated "R" for violence and language. Be advised, it has "F" bombs everywhere! I recommend you view this with a parent (like Garrett did) so any offensive parts can be edited or explained.
Thanks,
Cyberpsalmist
That was so lovely, Chrissy. How very much alike we are. Having much the same dreams and that desire God Himself put in to us at a very early age. ****The Big Longing that turned out to be Jesus Himself...I HAVE TO HAVE HIM, I HAVE TO HAVE HIM, I HAVE TO HAVE HIM!!!
I've admired many of the old movies, just one I think of was Bells of St. Mary's with Bing Crosby
I LOVE YOU lil chickadee
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